Asher and Najie met through mutual friends during their college years in December 2013. Their connection was sparked by their shared sense of humor, and they quickly found themselves drawn to each other's company. It was in a casual group chat where Asher, with style and grace, asked Najie out on a date. She was initially hesitant, but she couldn't help but admire his bold approach. In May 2014, they went on their first date to IHOP, where they found themselves engrossed in conversation for hours. From that moment on, they knew there was something special between them.
Their relationship blossomed, and on July 10, 2014, Asher formally asked Najie to be his girlfriend. Without hesitation, she joyfully accepted. Little did they know that their breakfast date at IHOP would mark the beginning of an extraordinary and enduring journey together.
From that point forward, they became inseparable. Each birthday and anniversary became a special occasion for them as they celebrated at their favorite restaurant, Blend on the Water. It was there where they shared countless cherished memories and deepened their love for each other.
One day, while listening to music, Snoh Aalegra's version of "Do 4 Love" played on the car stereo. Najie turned to Asher and remarked, "This would be a beautiful wedding song." Little did she know that this casual comment would set the stage for a momentous occasion in their lives.
On November 11, 2022, Asher and Najie arrived at Blend on the Water after a day spent with their closest friends. As they engaged in meaningful conversations and enjoyed their meal, suddenly, "Do 4 Love" began playing loudly in the restaurant. Najie attempted to grab Asher's hand to share the moment, but as she did, Asher laughed and stood up. Their waitress placed a plate in front of Najie. To Najie’s astonishment, the plate held a chocolate cake with the words "Will you marry me?", and Asher was down on one knee, holding a ring. Overwhelmed with emotion, Najie said "Yes," and in that beautiful moment, their journey together reached a new milestone.
When you ask Asher what he loves about Najie, he will say her amazing sense of humor, her beautiful smile and brown eyes and her compassion. She is more than a woman in his life, she is his right hand and rib. Most times, Asher doesn’t like to be around anyone, just Najie.
When you ask Najie what she loves about Asher, she will say his caring nature and his ability to make her feel special. Asher is Najie’s rock, someone she can always count on, and together bring out the best in each other.
Looking ahead, Najie and Asher aspire to keep growing and learning side by side. Their aim is to navigate life’s challenges together, providing unwavering support and love.
As their love story continues to unfold, it’s the tale of two souls who found each other in the most unexpected way, proving that genuine love can emerge when you least expect it.